The Basics of the 5 Key Healing Habits
Treat this like a menu, not a to-do list. Pick one thing to try at a time, focus on it for 3 to 4 weeks, then try something else.
We know that for either addiction or trauma, this tool is a rather blunt instrument. A more specific and surgical instrument may be more helpful.
Our goal is to offer a tool that anyone can try to use with or without a therapist. Healing from addiction or trauma often includes therapy, but this tool may help you get started.
All of the videos below mention a free survey. If you have not already taken it, we recommend taking the Personal Challenges Survey (PCS) before picking a set of habits to focus on. Click the button below to take the PCS.
Habits are a bit tricky. Watch this video first to maximize your results and minimize your risks when using habits to face your challenges.
Read recovery literature and do what it says. Start with the Alcoholics Anonymous Big Book, a relevant 12-step book for your addiction, or a book related to trauma (The Body Keeps The Score by Bessel Van Der Kolk is excellent!). There are also many faith-based books on recovery and trauma. Check out this page for some of our favorites.
Check-in or Sponsor Calls
At least once a day you need to have a phone call with a peer in recovery, or your sponsor / mentor / accountability partner. Address what you are both working on in your recovery or healing, what you need to work on, and whether you have stayed sober since your last call. If possible, upgrade from a phone call to a face-to-face meeting. In trauma support groups there may not be a sponsor, but there will be at least one person you connect with more than others.
Recovery from addiction or trauma does not happen alone. You need to experience the acceptance, support, and accountability that only other people on the road to recovery can offer you. Check out this page for a list of recovery meeting resources in Clark County.
Evening Meditation or Prayer
Pray with gratitude for the day you had, even if you had a slip or responded poorly to a trigger. Ask for the humility and support to learn from your slip and for the serenity and strength to not slip to the same triggers in the future. If you stayed sober, celebrate that in your evening prayer. You can also re-use some of your prayers from the morning if you need to.
Track Your Efforts and Results
Use the tracker in the free printable (which you can download using the button below) to track how often you make efforts to heal, how well you do at those efforts, and the results you get.
Each week, spend some time reflecting on the previous week. Ask yourself, “how can I do this more often?” or, “how can I do this better?”